This inductive study is designed to help you better understand how to cultivate a servant heart. For the next 30 days read the questions and allow them to spark deeper personal reflection and life change.
Disciples of Christ are commanded to be servant-minded. The world, the flesh, and the devil would have us reject that and be self-serving, putting our self-realization, self-expression, and rights ahead of others. Christ shows what it looks like to be a servant and Scripture gives us truth to help us cultivate it.
- Read Matthew 20:25. What is the natural human tendency when it comes to the choice between serving and being served? Where do you see that tendency in your life?
- Read Philippians 2:4. Should you neglect your interests for the sake of others’ interests? What is the mandate for believers regarding their personal interests?
- Read Philippians 2:1. Paul asks four questions to which the answer is yes. How should the comfort and encouragement you find in Christ motivate and encourage you?
- Read Matthew 20:20-28. What does Jesus say is the requirement to be a disciple of Christ? What does He say you need to be in order to become a leader?
- Read Matthew 20:25. Whose model of leadership were James and John following? What makes that model incompatible with leadership in Christ’s kingdom?
- Read Matthew 20:24. What caused the other 10 disciples to be indignant? What does this reveal about their hearts? What can you learn from power struggles like this?
- Read Matthew 20:28. Based on Christ’s example what is the purpose of being a servant? How can you set others free to love and serve God instead of serving you?
- Read Mark 10:45. How does the phrase “even the Son of Man” capture the characteristic of humility evident in Christ? What positions and rights could hinder you from serving others?
- Read Matthew 23:11-12. What is one of the greatest hindrances to servant living? What will eventually happen to those who exalt themselves?
- Read Luke 22:24-30. Christ was preparing to go to His death and the disciples seemed oblivious. How does preoccupation with self-interests ruin your capacity to properly relate to Christ?
- Read Luke 22:24-30. What interpersonal issues arose when the disciples failed to be servant-minded? How can a servant mindset help avoid church disharmony today?
- Read John 13:1-17. Why didn’t the disciples offer to wash each other’s feet in this story? How can you be more aware of service opportunities?
- Read John 13:1-17. In this story the disciples demonstrated an “I’m here to be served” mentality. What are ways you can avoid this attitude?
- Read John 13:1-17. What are some barriers to biblical servanthood? How can the desire for status or to feel important keep you from serving?
- Read John 13:1-17. Jesus lays aside his garments and puts on a towel. Why is this a fitting analogy of His assuming a role of a slave?
- Read John 13:1-3. Why was Jesus confident to become a servant? How does this relate to your identity and faith in Christ and becoming a servant to others?
- Read John 13:12-15. If the One you call Master humbled Himself to serve you and others what does that require of you?
- Read John 13:16-17. What is the promise to you if you understand you are a servant and follow the example of our Master? How will you experience that?
- Read 2 Corinthians 4:15-18. One hindrance to servant living is the desire to be served right now. How is staying focused on future reward a key to effective service?
- Read Hebrews 12:1-3. How does serving for joy in the future, like Jesus did, help you live as a servant now?
- Read Philippians 2:1-2. What four blessings are true for you because of the work of Christ? How are they to be a motivation to Christlike servant living?
- Read Philippians 2:1-2; Matthew 23:11-12. What is the secret to becoming great? What should your motive be when serving others?
- Read Matthew 23:11-13. What are some of the consequences of hypocritical or wrongly motivated service?
- Read 1 Peter 5:5. What is one consequence of failing to exercise humility and take on a servant attitude? What effect could that have on your life and ministry?
- Read Philippians 2:3-4. In order to serve others, what is the fundamental attitude you need? What attitudes could hinder you from becoming a servant?
- Read Philippians 2:5-11. Christ set the example by giving up His divine rights and privileges and submitting to the Father. How can you follow His example?
- Read Isaiah 53. In this passage Christ is portrayed as the suffering servant. How does this relate to your life? What can help you through suffering?
- Read Romans 12:1-2. What does every believer need to surrender to God and why? Why is this a prerequisite to effective service? How can you do this daily?
- Read Romans 12:3-8. What is the relationship between being a servant and the exercise of your gifts for the body of Christ? What steps can you take to do this?
- Read Ephesians 5:18; Colossians 3:16. What do these verses indicate are necessary for you to overcome your self-centredness and become servant-minded?