Read Proverbs 12:18
Politics have always been fraught with heated words, but social media has become a new medium for spreading contempt. People feel freer to share their hateful words from behind the safety of their screens, with little thought of who those words may hurt. In these days of harsh political rancor and vicious verbal mudslinging, Solomon’s counsel on the importance of weighing our words comes as a soothing balm to our souls:
Some people make cutting remarks, but the words of the wise bring healing. (Proverbs 12:18)
Everyone enjoys a fitting reply. It is wonderful to say the right thing at the right time! (Proverbs 15:23)
An offended friend is harder to win back than a fortified city. Arguments separate friends like a gate locked with bars. (Proverbs 18:19)
Wise words satisfy like a good meal; the right words bring satisfaction. (Proverbs 18:20)
There’s a TV ad for a first-aid ointment that says, “Helps the hurt stop hurting.” Another offers a bandage that takes away the “ouch.” That’s good marketing—but we can also apply the sentiment to our words.
Let’s be gentle and sensitive when we are touching the tender feelings of others—especially with our words. Moms and dads, it’s hard to exaggerate the value of gentle words within the walls of your home. Soften those commands a little! You can correct your preschooler with grace. You can be firm without breaking your teenager’s spirit. You’ll preserve some very valuable (and tender) self-esteem while gaining respect, believe me.
Your children and grandchildren will not only remember your words long after you’re gone. They’ll remember the way you said them. It’s never too late to start doing what’s right. Season your words with some gentleness. Start today.
Devotional content taken from Good Morning, Lord...Can We Talk? by Charles R. Swindoll. Copyright © 2018. Used by permission of Tyndale House Publishers, a Division of Tyndale House Ministries. All rights reserved.
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